YOUR QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the difference between a Registrar, a Celebrant and a Humanist Celebrant?

A registrar is a government-appointed official who can legally marry you, following set scripts and guidelines within a 15 minute timeframe.

Celebrants come in lots of different forms, all with a slightly different angle. Their focus is on getting to know you and creating a ceremony which is unique to you. I'm a celebrant accredited by Humanists UK, creating inclusive, non-religious ceremonies for couples. Humanism values human rights, equality, empathy and ethics, values which many of us share. You don't have to define yourself as a Humanist to choose a Humanist ceremony.

Find out more about Humanism, and learn about the difference between Registrar and Celebrant ceremonies here.  

Is our wedding legally binding?

Humanist ceremonies are not currently legal in England and Wales, although they are in Scotland, Northern Ireland, Jersey and Guernsey. Humanists UK is campaigning to change this, so watch this space.

That means, currently, just like registering a baby’s birth in the weeks after they were born, a celebrant-led wedding will need to have a 2+2 statutory marriage registration. In my nearest registry office, this costs £56 + £12 for your certificate.

Where can we get married?

You can get married in a licensed venue, or a venue without a wedding license. You can get married outside, in your back garden, on the beach or on top of a mountain. The options are endless, and the world is your oyster.

Do you officiate LGBTQ+ weddings?

I believe everyone deserves to feel safe, respected, and celebrated for who they truly are, regardless of gender identity, pronouns, or sexuality. Marriage equality is for everyone, and I’m committed to creating inclusive ceremonies that honour love in all its forms.

Read my equality and inclusivity statement.

Can we include our families' religious heritage and culture in our ceremony?

There are many ways to bring your family’s religious and cultural heritage into a non-religious ceremony. Whether it’s the breaking of a glass, exchanging garlands, jumping the broom, or another cherished tradition, we can adapt these moments to fit your unique day. Together, we’ll craft a ceremony that respectfully includes your families' heritage alongside your own values, creating a truly inclusive and meaningful celebration.

How far do you travel?

I'm based in beautiful Conwy in North Wales. I’m happy to travel across the UK to conduct your ceremony. Whether your wedding is local or further afield, I can be there to conduct the wedding ceremony of your dreams.

Travel and expenses are charged on top of my fees, contact me for a personalised quote.

Are you available, and how much do you charge?

For all wedding and availability enquiries, head over to the contact page to book a discovery call, or email katerostancecelebrant@gmail.com.

Can you help us with our after-dinner speeches or a script-only service?

If the thought of writing a speech for your wedding day makes you feel ill, I can help with that as well as creating an amazing wedding ceremony. We'll meet to talk about what you want to say, then I will work my magic.

If you would like a friend or relative to officiate your ceremony, and would like a helping hand with writing a ceremony that hits all the right notes, I work globally with couples on a scriptwriting-only basis. Get in touch for more info.

Testimonials

Reviews that make your heart skip a beat

“"From the first meeting, Kate thought about what matters to us and why, to create a ceremony that was perfect. It was a pleasure working with her and we come away with beautiful memories from the ceremony and the process of creating it."

Chloe & Richard

"Kate was just utterly fabulous throughout. Our guests couldn't believe how relaxed, personal and fun the ceremony was... completely different to a normal registrar"

Catherine & Ashley

“Kate is a lovely, warm and friendly person and from the moment that we met her she put us completely at ease. She drew up the most fabulous ceremony which managed to capture just what we were hoping to achieve.”

Angela & George

“Kate was really friendly throughout the process, professional, warm, enthusiastic, calm, clear, very well organized, and dedicated to creating a ceremony that 100% felt right for us. She delivered a ceremony that was fun, heartfelt and personal, that everyone loved. We fully recommend her!”

Conny & Mike