Pre-planning a funeral isn’t about dwelling on death; it’s about taking control of how your life is celebrated and remembered.
I know that thinking about your own funeral isn’t the easiest subject to tackle, but pre-planning can be one of the most thoughtful and meaningful things you do - for yourself and for the people you love. It’s a chance to take the weight off your loved ones’ shoulders by making decisions ahead of time, ensuring that when the day comes, they won’t have to worry about the details or second-guess what you might have wanted.
Pre-planning also gives you the unique opportunity to create something deeply personal, a ceremony that reflects your life, your values, and your personality. Whether it’s a joyful celebration of everything you’ve achieved, a quiet and simple gathering, or something in between, it’s your story, told your way.
Many funeral directors offer pre-paid funeral packages, allowing you to pay in advance for costs such as the collection and care of your body, the choice of a coffin, and whether you prefer burial or cremation. Some pre-paid plans even cover preferences like music, but they often stop short of addressing the ceremony itself.
That’s where pre-planned funerals come in. Preplanning gives you the freedom to design the ceremony itself, ensuring your ceremony reflects what's important to you. For some people, this is about reducing the burden on those left behind. For others, it's an attempt to ensure their send off is in accordance with their values.
There are a couple of options for how we can work together to pre-plan your funeral.
We meet face-to-face where we’ll talk through your wishes, your life story, and the kind of tone you’d like for your ceremony. Afterward, I’ll follow up with emails or calls as needed to refine the details. You’ll receive a written record of your plan by email so that you and your loved ones have everything clearly documented.
If you choose, this can also be stored safely in Humanists UK Pre-planned Funeral Repository until such a time as this is needed - at no extra cost.
Price: £50 + travel
We meet face-to-face to talk through your wishes, your life story nad the kind of tone you'd like for your ceremony. I will go away and create a draft of your ceremony script. We can follow up with emails, texts or calls to make any adustments necessary, and you'll received a digital copy by email.
If you choose, this can also be stored safely in Humanists UK Pre-planned Funeral Repository until such a time as this is needed - at no extra cost.
Price: £170 + travel
If this feels like the right step for you, I’d be honoured to help. Together, we can craft a plan that feels heartfelt and uniquely you. Whether you already know exactly what you’d like or just want to explore the possibilities, we can create something that brings peace of mind to you and comfort to those you leave behind.
To get started on planning your own funeral, you are welcome to call me on 07793678581 or email me at katerostancecelebrant@gmail.com.
